About privacy

Everyone's data matters. To prevent spam we require email verification at signup. We will never share your personal information without your consent.

To let you express your feelings without worrying about acquaintances, we've balanced privacy and visibility and removed as much personal information as possible. Please still protect your privacy when posting.

Everyone has their own values. The stories you read are all imperfect in some way — please hold on to your own values.

Please note

By registering or posting you agree to Utuba's user agreement, currently as follows:

• The site still has many imperfections. For suggestions or complaints, email [email protected]
• The site is in beta; there is no delete or change-password feature yet. Please post carefully and keep your information safe.
• Your content must comply with the law.
• We may remove content that violates the rules or the law.
• Your content must follow Utuba's other community rules.
• If your content appears to be false, we may consider removing it.

How to use

Only the author can see the comments you receive. Everyone's situation and experience are different — please respect each other and comment rationally.

The story of Utuba

On a business trip I passed an old street in Luoyang and stumbled into a "Museum of Broken Relationships"; the heartbreaking stories struck me deeply. On the way back I thought — everyone carries so much sorrow, so I wanted to build a place to pour out real feelings. Built from Oct 15, 2019 to Jan 5, 2020 after months of late nights — this community is for all lovers. May all who love find their way to each other...

A few images that left an impression (contact us to remove them if they infringe).